Why politeness is likely the first casualty of romantic relationships

Have you noticed how some couples in long-term relationships treat each other worse than you would ever think of treating a friend or an acquaintance? I hope that’s not the case in your love relationship. If it is, it may be time to consider implementing some changes.

There lies an assumption and expectation that if both people are committed, you’ll be loved whether or not you ignore rules of common courtesy.

That may be true to a certain extent, but it Continue reading Why politeness is likely the first casualty of romantic relationships

How to kick divorce in the ass

I know, I snuck it in there last week. The big “D” word…

Yes, this is my reality. I am 37. DI-to-the-freaking-VORCED. And sometimes wondering what the heck I’m doing with my life.

Nobody ever decides to get married with the intention of getting a divorce. But divorce happens. Sometimes, it hits you like a ton of bricks unexpectedly. Other times, you see it coming from a million miles away, and you still attempt to cling on to the security. Usually, any relationship (marriage or not) is over long before it actually “officially” ends. At least for one person anyway.

The difficulty is not in the decision itself, but in Continue reading How to kick divorce in the ass

Hello, World!

Hello world! Let’s get straight to the point.

I’m just going to leave it right here: I don’t have a formal, legal piece of paper indicating that I’m a professional in any of the topics I blog about. This is a library of my thoughts- a medium for expressions. So while I may sometimes say things with passion or gusto, they’re all my personal thoughts.

I feel the need to emphasize such, because Continue reading Hello, World!