How to kick divorce in the ass

I know, I snuck it in there last week. The big “D” word…

Yes, this is my reality. I am 37. DI-to-the-freaking-VORCED. And sometimes wondering what the heck I’m doing with my life.

Nobody ever decides to get married with the intention of getting a divorce. But divorce happens. Sometimes, it hits you like a ton of bricks unexpectedly. Other times, you see it coming from a million miles away, and you still attempt to cling on to the security. Usually, any relationship (marriage or not) is over long before it actually “officially” ends. At least for one person anyway.

The difficulty is not in the decision itself, but in Continue reading How to kick divorce in the ass

What you didn’t know about life…and dating

…is that Life is full of Processes. How you go through those processes determines how “happy” you will be with your life. Or rather, just how you LIVE your life.

You meet a stranger. You make small talk. A connection is made. You exchange social media info. Or not. You stay connected. You become friends. Or not. Process.

It took a little while, but I got to a certain point after the divorce when I realized I was ready to be in a long-term relationship again.

Oh, don’t get me wrong. It was Continue reading What you didn’t know about life…and dating

Hello, World!

Hello world! Let’s get straight to the point.

I’m just going to leave it right here: I don’t have a formal, legal piece of paper indicating that I’m a professional in any of the topics I blog about. This is a library of my thoughts- a medium for expressions. So while I may sometimes say things with passion or gusto, they’re all my personal thoughts.

I feel the need to emphasize such, because Continue reading Hello, World!